Stop writing on this blog 4 years ago. If she can do it, Why can’t I? Has become a
big part of me…A way to reinvent myself…To figure out who I am…Rebuild Mommy
Fix It If she can do it, Why can’t I?’s mission statement is:TO show women, men, anyone who is raising children alone,
that it is possible to make your lifestyle work for you, no matter what it is
you want in life. Please do understand that I am honest and I am actually living
this experience while writing. I am sorry if you don’t like what I
am writing… I want to share my TRUTH. I am living everything I am
writing. Trust me. It is OK to laugh at me. I am not ashamed
of anything I write. This is me…real me. This blog is going to help
me gain the life that I want and help so many others. I am not an expert
but I will not post anything on here without finding accurate
information. I won't give it to you without the proof behind it.Please do laugh, when need to.
I am someone trying to go in business for myself. I am living by my
motto: SHIT HAPPENS!!!My question is, what are you are
going to do about it? With that being said, you are welcome to come join
me in my crusade to live a life that is considered the new normal…that is
actually my normal. I take constructive criticism, suggestions, ideas,
etc. Feel free to stop by and chat. I like to talk. Until
then... The Crazy IdeaAs an adult, I started making goals for myself. I
realized I didn’t really know who I was. I became an adult when I found
myself pregnant at 19 yrs. old. So I really don’t know who I
am. People keep telling me to cut the embillical cord. I realize people were telling the truth. I live my life for my son. So since that is my truth, Let me figure out
where I went wrong or right. So I came
up with this plan (Tamar Inc). Every
plan I have had in the past have failed.
I figured this would be a great time to reinvent myself.
This Is Me!Well, I am an all over the place busy mommy-fix-it. I
really started out on the wrong side...to me anyway. I became pregnant at
19, in my second year of college. Not so bad! I thought that was my
downward spiral. I was lost! Getting pregnant period was not a part
of my plans. So in 2006, in my second year at community college,
pregnant, yet determined to not be a statistic. My journey after that was basically becoming a
statistic. I was a black single mother of a little black boy who happened
to be autistic and we were meant to fail by all standards. I have been in college since I graduated high school in 2005
(yes it has been 14 years!!!). I worked in retail for 2 years and I have climbed the
medical entry level jobs for about 5 years while trying to provide for me and
my child. I quit my job in the nursing field to support my then 5 year
old son ( who is autistic) with his education.
No money and dreams just falling apart.
Did I mention I live at home with my parents? I didn’t.
Well, yeah I live at home with my parents and little brother with an autistic
child. So for 14 years I have been trying to get a college degree
in any medical career. That was my plan, THE BIG PLAN. Great for
me…I am a little optimistic and I trying to be a realist. You will get a
taste for what I am working on along the journey. So desperately ready to start my own PERSONAL story. ENJOY!!!
